• sink our your differences

• have a bee in your bonnet

• be in take holy orders

• on your own head be it

• at your service

• at your own risk

• have your cake and eat it too

• find your bearings

• your guess is as good as mine

• lay down your arms

• count your blessings

• get your act together

• penny for your thoughts

• play your cards right

• answer to your prayers

• lose your bearings

• not on your life

• in apple-pie order

• march to the beat of your own drum

• bus your own table

• not on your nellie

• hold your horses

• you can put that in your pipe and smoke it

• at your beck and call

• behind your back